8 Tips to Make Your Wedding Day Memorable
1. Put your money where your heart is
2. Be like Marie
3. Avoid Expendables
4. Customize
5. Delegate
6. Be intentional with your moments
7. Stay hydrated and nourished
8. Relax and enjoy
1. Put Your Money Where Your Heart Is
IT MIGHT BE WISE TO TAKE AN AUDIT OF THE THINGS THAT MATTER MOST TO YOU.
It perhaps will not come as a surprise to hear that weddings can be expensive. Even with the best of budgetary intentions, costs have a way of creeping up. As you embark on your planning journey, it might be wise to take an audit of the things that matter most to you. Is it quality photographs? An epic dance party? A decadent meal? Whatever will make your heart glow for years to come, make that the centerpiece of your budget.
2. Be like Marie
KEEP ONLY THOSE THINGS THAT SPEAK TO YOUR HEART
Author and lifestyle expert Marie Kondo said, “Keep only those things that speak to your heart. Then take the plunge and discard all the rest. Discard everything that does not spark joy.” We encourage you to do the same with wedding traditions and decor: if it gives you joy, keep it! If not, then set it free.
- Don’t like the thought of a garter? Toss that idea!
- Want a choreographed dance? Plan on it!
- Not a fan of speeches? Leave those out!
You in all likelihood won’t have a day devoted to you and your special someone too often. Make it your favorite day!
3. Avoid Expendables
IS THIS SOMETHING I CAN RENT, BORROW, REUSE OR RESELL?
It is worth pausing before each purchase and asking: is this something I can rent, borrow, reuse, or resell? Take inventory of what you or your friends already have. Can you bring new life to a possession you currently love? Is it something you will use after the wedding? Can you summon your army of friends to loan you this item? If you do need to buy it and won’t use it afterwards, is it something you can sell or donate?
- Facebook Marketplace is a great venue for wedding decor.
- If it won’t sell, is it something you can donate?
- Perhaps you know someone who is getting married afterwards who might be able to use it.
Researching sources ahead of time can help curb spending and simplify cleanup after the wedding day celebration.
4. Customize
START BY THINKING ABOUT WHAT YOU ENJOY DOING TOGETHER.
Your wedding is a celebration of the miraculous thing you have built, and the two unique people who made it. We encourage you to bring your love story into the day. Start by thinking about what you enjoy doing together. Some ideas include:
- Games. Place fun activities as centerpieces, or have lawn games outside during the reception.
- Love vintage films? Decorate using movie props. A photo bus is always a fun activity.
- If golfing is a mutual passion, set up a mini golf course.
- Enjoy riding horses, motorcycles, or bicycles together? Incorporate these in your send off.
A wedding reception is a chance to let your guests enter into the world you have created as a pair. Have fun with it!
5. Delegate
ALLOW YOUR WEDDING PARTY TO SUPPORT YOU BY TAKING ON SOME OF THE RESPONSIBILITIES.
We know you are an incredible one of a kind person. It is physically impossible for you to be everywhere at the same time. Delegate someone to take care of things behind the scenes so you can focus on the fun stuff: connecting with your people, and getting ready, both physically and emotionally.
Set your helpers up to be successful by being clear with expectations beforehand. Consider meeting with them a day or two before the wedding to go over expectations. Printable timelines, check lists, and diagrams will assist in making your vision a reality. Fortunately, there are heaps of checklists on the internet that you can customize to suit your needs. The more information your people have, the more you can kick back, relax, and celebrate.
6. Be intentional with your moments
THINK ABOUT WHICH MOMENTS YOU ARE LOOKING FORWARD TO AND TAKE TIME FOR THEM.
It’s worth talking with your partner beforehand to make a list of moments you don’t want to miss. In all the excitement, the day can fly by. List the moments that mean the most to you, whatever they may be:
- A private dance
- Dining at a sweetheart table
- Cutting the cake
Set an intention to be very present for that time. It may help to share your most important moments with a coordinator or a delegated party to help facilitate your desires. When those key moments arrive, the two of you can step back and be present, soaking in a memory to share for years to come.
7. Stay Hydrated and Nourished
TAKE A MOMENT TO EAT, AND DRINK PLENTY OF WATER.
In the midst of all your planning, remember to take time for self care. Delegate someone to be in charge of ensuring there is food for the wedding party the day of and take a moment to eat. Give yourself the gift of hydration. Not only will it make your skin look better for photographs but it will help prevent dehydration.
8. Relax and enjoy
SOME THINGS MAY NOT GO AS PLANNED AND THAT’S OKAY.
Many events are going to happen on the day of your wedding, some may be unexpected. More than likely, your guest will not notice the change in plans. After all, they are here to support you. We encourage you to take a deep breath, and simply focus on what is important, you and your partner.
Relax and celebrate your amazing day!
